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Tradition Ideas: Tradition
Ideas that are a bit "Non-Traditional" | | | Tradition Ideas that are a bit
"Non-Traditional" | Tradition Ideas are Sometimes
Right Under our Noses...
While
visiting my
parents, I was given a handsaw that
belonged to my grandpa Boyter. He passed away about a year ago at the
age of 81.
Grandpa was quite a craftsman and he
loved carpentry
and woodworking. I grew up just a few miles from where grandpa lived,
so I was very close to him.
As my father gave me
the saw he told me that this particular handsaw
also belonged to my great grandfather Boyter. As if the saw wasn't
worth the world to me already, knowing the history of ownership more
than doubled it's worth in my eyes.
I doubt I'll
ever use this saw. I
don't wish to ruin it in anyway, but it and it's history will remain in
the family for generations. I'll see to it. | Quick Links! | Free Journal
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Sayings and ExpressionsThink back for a moment.
Do
you
remember words or expressions that your mother and father repeated on
a regular basis? These are expressions that you yourself may use today.
These words or sayings make you feel like you are becoming your mother
or father when you hear yourself use them.
Some of
these expressions like "if it was a snake it would have bit you" are
now popular cliches.
I'm not referring to those.
It's other
lesser-known expressions and sayings that I speak of here. Ones that
you heard all the time.
I, like everybody else, grew
up hearing an assortment of them, but until recently the thought never
crossed my mind. Did my parents or grandparents grow up hearing the
same expressions? After all, where Did they get them from? Just how
long have some of these unique sayings been in the family?
This
is a form of family tradition in which you may have been immersed your
whole life but never knew it.
You may have a few
unique expressions of your own. Ever
wonder how far they will
perpetuate themselves through your children?
A
family tradition is the thread that binds one generation to the next.
Family traditions are not only made manifest in family activities but
also in family sayings and items that are passed down through the
generations. Things that we may not think of regularly.
"Think
of Journal Writing, Life Story Preservation, Scrapbooking
etc.. as building a family "museum"
Many
traditions have been lost to our families. Many current traditions that
your family holds dear may be in danger of being forgotten unless you
take an
active part in preserving that which you wish your posterity to know.
Do
you see your grown children continuing with most or all of the
traditions that you taught them as children? If your answer is yes,
congratulations...you did your job!
Think
of journal writing, life story preservation, scrapbooking and
others as
"building" a family "museum". I'm not saying we need to build an actual
museum. It is just an analogy.
What would the world
know about American history now or in the future without the
Smithsonian museum, Egyptian civilization without the Egyptian Museum
in Cairo or French history without the Louvre Museum in Paris.
Thousands
of museums have been created to preserve the traditions, stories and
tangible keepsakes from generations past.
Nations
perish without strong tradition to bind them. Tradition is no less
important in our families.
Even the non-traditional
kind!
"We
had more family traditions than we realized"
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